Sunday September 20, 2020

Design for Life: Should I tell my wife about the affair?

Each week we ask a different expert to solve your problems. This week, Louize Carroll advises a reader on what path to take after a marriage infidelity

13th September, 2020
Passivity and poor communication are co-conspirators in the demise of love and breaking of trust

Dear Expert,

Some years ago, my wife and I were having problems in our marriage. We were both working a lot and we had started to become strangers to each other. We weren't sleeping together and it felt a bit like things might be coming to an end, although neither of us said that directly.

We have two children and there was a part of me that felt that maybe we would wait...

Subscribe from just €1 for the first month!

Exclusive offers:

All Digital Access + eReader



Unlimited Access for 1 Month

Then €19.99 a month after the offer period.

Get basic
*New subscribers only
You can cancel any time.



€149 For the 1st Year

Unlimited Access for 1 Year

You can cancel any time.




90 Day Pass

You can cancel any time.

2 Yearly



Unlimited Access for 2 Years

This product does not auto-renew

Team Pass

Get a Business Account for you and your team

Related Stories

Women come in all shapes and sizes, as do their more intimate areas, and while a growing number of products are being marketed towards uniformity of size and look, it is important for women to learn to accept their bodies, blemishes and all

Caroline West | 15 hours ago

This week, Sarah Geraghty advises a reader on how to make a good impression on her new employer

Sarah Geraghty | 15 hours ago

This week, clinical psychologist Dr Malie Coyne advises a reader on how to deal with an anxious and struggling child

Malie Coyne | 2 weeks ago