Design for Life: I don’t know if I can trust my boyfriend again

This week, psychotherapist Siobhán Murray advises a reader who, having reconciled with her previously unfaithful ex, is now unsure how she feels about the relationship

24th July, 2021
Design for Life: I don’t know if I can trust my boyfriend again
We all have different limits and boundaries around what we view as acceptable or not in relationships

Dear Expert,

I recently got back together with my ex. We were deeply in love five years ago, or at least I was. We lived together and I was incredibly happy with my life. Then I discovered that he’d had an affair. I looked at direct messages that he’d been sending other women on Twitter. It turned out that he’d had flirtations with several and slept with at least one....

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