Design for Life: I’m 23 and haven’t had sex yet. Is there something wrong with me?

This week, clinical hypnotherapist Fiona Brennan advises a reader who has yet to lose their virginity

Many people feel pressurised into having sex by a certain age. Illustration: Getty

Dear Expert,

I'm 23 years old, male, a college student – and I have never had sex. I’m not good with women, which you probably don't need to be told considering my opening line. I have no game whatsoever, I freeze a lot and even though I'm not ugly (I’m regular-looking), nobody ever chats me up. I'm starting to think I am one of those people who others regard as asexual, even though that's not ...