First Person

Neil Strauss: author, 39, Los Angeles

It’s not fair that some guys know what to do [with women] and others don’t. They should be allowed to have help.

People think that if you’re a self-help guru, you somehow have to be perfect. I’m fallible like everyone else.

After The Game [Strauss’s book about learning how to attract women] came out, I took a month out of my life to help some guys for free.

With me, it’s not about ...